Ladies, a man wants to feel that you are his escape. His escape from a world of pressure, a world of performance, image and roles…
The Masculine world.
He wants to escape into your world, the Feminine world you bring within you. The place his soul connects, is seen and his spirit recharges through amazing intimacy, sensual connection, free, deep soul friendship, attraction, fun, lightness, acceptance, etc.
If you go out on a date to relax, recharge, be known, get to know a beautiful soul and form intimate connection… the energy flows.
If you go to perform and impress, the energy is blocked, because you are making it all about you… (you being validated, being approved of, being "liked"... ."you, you, you.") When you are in this performance space, your soul is stifled. If your soul is stifled his soul will be stifled. All you'll have left then is physical chemistry or none of it—and you'll both leave emptier, instead of fuller.
Get to know him, and let the date itself give to both of you. Receive.